In The Philippines too Long?
I think I’ve been in the Philippines too long. How do I know? I’ve started thinking that Spam is really bacon. This is especially true when they burn it a bit too much. I’m being funny but its true. I have not really been here too long, I’ve just learned to adapt.
There is bacon here, I just don’t buy it. For me to have enough bacon requires that I eat the entire package. And no one knows better than I do that that is not a good idea. Especially for diabetics that are too fat to start with.
When I first came to the Philippines, everything seemed so strange. All those things are normal to me now. At least all those things that I can recall. Traffic is an eye opener. We must have too many rules in the West. Driving looks like chaos but it works just fine, better than in the USA. Well, in many respects it does. People from New York could come here to learn what a traffic jam really is. I don’t see nearly as many wrecks here though. And it amazes me that is true. Perhaps, people driving here know they have to watch out of the other guy as there’s not telling what might be coming down the road at you next.
If you think warm water is obtained by waiting till the sun is high in the sky and that you just need to wait for the sun to warm the water in the pipes, you might have been living in the Philippines too long.
Its all good though, its the way we do it here and we humans have quite the ability to adapt. I suppose its built into our genes.
I see a lot of Westerners complain about everything about the Philippines. Sometimes these people just like to complain I prefer to complain about the complainers, not that that makes a lot of sense, then I become more like them! One thing you will notice though, those that have been here for more than a year, they complain less about the Filipino way. It is in part because they have learned much from Filipino. They may not like to admit it but often they find that they didn’t know as much as they thought they did. Of course, some people hardly have anything positive to say about anything. Its much easier to dislike some thing. If you admit to liking something then you put yourself in a position to be criticized. So our negative comments are often just a way to gain acceptance.
If you are with a group that complains about the Philippines, then you, like them are just smarter than the people here. You know better than them. you know their way is all wrong. Since your group collectively knows this, you become accepted by the group. You reinforce each others negativity and thus your smartness. Problem is, you are only smarter in this group. So you can go right on believing that you’re smarter. That you are better!
In conclusion, I have to ask myself, is it that I’ve been in the Philippines too long or did I wait too long to come to the Philippines. I think, its the later, I waited way too long to decide that it is time for me to live in the Philippines. You should come, the Filipino will teach you much about life.
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I guess I like to complain about the whiners too. But on a personal note, where in Cebu. I bought, strike that, paid for a farm in Lapaz Barangay south of Bogo, almost directly across for the Virgin Mary Shrine. Even had the house I built furnish with stuff made by Glen Mead from Negros.
My wife and daughter are actully in the air right now returning from a visit. We’re planning on retiring to the PI, perhaps as soon as 2015 no later than 2018, if I don’t get the ax!
Nic
That name sure seems familiar. I guess I know a few Tom’s though and someone famous, Bob Woodward, or was that Woodard. Oh well, probably never ran into you before.
I’ve been to your areas once. Only went to the Shrine once but then, I think t here are two of them here in the city. That’s what I’m told, I’ve only see the one though.
I live in Bogo City. Right in the middle of it. No nice farm land for me though.
Very interesting post! Although I LOLd at the waiting for the pipes to heat up, come to think of it, it’s a very economic way to get hot water
You’ve got an awesome blog
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Its also a very poor way to get hot water. However, its better than no way at all.
Good point,anyone who whines,is a whiner!Anyone who eats spam doesnt know what food is.However, filipino has taught me not a thing. Adjusting to a way of life where traffic laws are ignored, littering is commonplace(even on the beach) is not difficult.When people are concerned with feeding there families and are too busy to adhere to traffic and litterring laws,to name a few,it is a comment on the state of the state,not necessarily the people who live in the state.
They have traffic laws here? The only one I know of is, the kano is at fault. haha I’m only kidding. It was one of the first “rules” I heard here. Really though, I think they just don’t have a lot of traffic laws and from what I can tell, the Filipino way works just fine.
I don’t know if I understand what you are saying. Filipino, the language or the people? I’ve learned much from them. I need to learn the language, I’m lagging far behind in that. Once I do, I bet I learn much more from Filipino.
They say if you count lizards to fall asleep at night, you might be acclimated to the Philippines!
Great Blg design (I’m Jealous).
I just happened upon your blog from http://www.expatinthephilippines.com . Thanks for all the good stories.
I look forward to exploring your blog more!
LOL@ Lizards
thanks for the response. Just wondering about getting soap powders and the correct medcine, cause I was told that it’s hard to get over their. I was wondering if u could have the things sent to you thourgh the mail? Great site, Thanks for all ur help
Yes Bill, its hard to get those things and I’ve wrote about it and how to get them on this site.
I find it too expensive to ship laundry detergent myself but there are hints on how to cut those shipping cost too. I send a few things over from time to time.
what is your suggestions on Boga as far as hotels or on hotels to stay? ive been living in Oxford,AL and have retired from being a deisal mechanic and also do maintinance on buildings and tractor trailors here and in FL for 30yrs. can you retire and live on $1000 to $1500 MONTH COMFORTABLY OVER THERE? I HEARD IT WAS REALLY NICE OUTSIDE OF HABU CITY IS THAT TRUE? DO THEY REQUIRE MORE THAN THE REQUIRED 4 SHOTS TO HAVE TO COME OVER THERE OR DO I HAVE TO HAVE MORE THAN THAT? ALSO CAN YOU USE YOUR INSURANCE THERE OR DO I NEED TO PURCHASE INSURANCE THERE OR JUST PAY FOR ONLY WHAT I NEED AND WHAT ABOUT MEDICATION DO I HAVE TO BRING IT OR GET IT THERE FROM DRS THERE IN CASE I NEEDED ANYTHING LIKE IF I HAD AN EMERGENCY? AND HOW ACOUT PERSONAL HYGENE STUFF IS IT CHEAPER THERE OR CAN I HAVE IT SHIPPED OVER THERE CHEAPER ALSO I WAS TOLD THAT YOU CAN GET CLOTHING MADE OVER THER THAN BUYING HERE AND BRINGING IT OVER AND I HAVE AN APPLE NOTEBOOK WILL IT WORK OVER THERE OR DOES IT REQUIRE SOMETHING DIFFERENT OVER THERE? ALSO I NEED TO KNOW HOW INTERNATIONAL CALLING WORKS,HOW YOU DO IT AND WHAT I NEED TO DO TO HAVE IT SET UP? WOULD IT BE EASIER TO GET A 21 DAY VISA FROM THE EMBASSY AND GET AND EXTISTION OR GET A FULL VISA BEFORE I COME OVER THERE ALL TOGETHER,WHICH IS EASIER TO DO? AND IF THEREE ARE ANY BLOGS THAT YOU KNOW OF PLEASE LET ME KNOW,THAT WAY IF THERES ANYTHING I MIGHT NEED HELP WITH I WONT HAVE TO KEEP YOU BUSY WITH ALL MY QUESTIONS LOL? I APPRECIATE ANY HELP YOU CAN PROVIDE ME AND YOU SEEM TO HAVE A VERY NICE AND KIND WIFE AND I REALLY APPRECIATE ALL THE TIME YOU ARE PUTTING IN WITH THE HELP. THANK YOU!
ALSO HOW MUCH CASH MONEY DO I NEED TO BRING TO CHANGE OVER WHEN I DO COME OVER? OR DO I NEED TO DO TRAVELERS CHECKS OR HOW DOES THAT WORK? THANKS RUSTY!
Hey Bill, nice to have you here!
You should probably turn the caps lock off. Its considered impolite on the internet.
Makes it hard to read.
Lot of questions! They are mostly answered on the site already. Some of them answered in the article you responded too.
You don’t need any shots to come here. Some might be a good idea but none are required.
If you don’t want to take the time to read the articles on the site, that’s cool, but please check out this link if you want all those questions answered: http://cebuexperience.com/one-on-one-help/
I’m happy to answer a few questions especially about the article in question, but spending an hour or more answering all those is more time that I have. Sorry
Thanks
Here is another link that may help answer some of your questions:
http://cebuexperience.com/living-in-the-philippines/expat-finances/how-much-money-do-i-need-to-live-in-cebu/