Family and Friends In The Philippines
Jessie tells me that when she was growing up in the Philippines, her father took them to the beach every Sunday. It appears that a lot of families in the Philippines do this. I’ve been taking our family to the Hide Away in barangay Odlot here in Bogo City on Sundays too. We don’t go every Sunday though.
There are some other resorts around Bogo too. One is Nailon Beach Resort. We have gone there twice but both times Koreans had rented the entire resort in both cases. That resort also has a pool. They use to offer a membership and I called it the Bogo City Country Club which you could join for P3000 a year. It doesn’t appear they have that any more. Jessie has learned of a public beach some place in Odlot that is sandy. She is trying to find it. The beach at the Hide Away is stone and that is often sharp but once in the water, it is mostly sand.
At the Hide Away, you can use a table for as low as P300 but the last time we went we chose the P800 table. Honestly, I think that is too much for it. But it is closer to the water and not so hot as the sea breeze is cooling. Since I have electronics and stuff, I don’t like using the cheaper tables as even the workers tell me not to leave my things alone there. The P800 table is off by itself a bit and there is no reason for people to be passing by it, making it a bit more secure. I need to go back to Odlot tomorrow but I don’t know if I will make it. I need to be in that sea water to help heal my hands and feet. It does help. The walk I went on two days ago was harmful. I don’t understand why walking makes my hands worse. I’m absolutely convinced this is not contact dermatitis. Unless it is contact with the air itself is causing this. it is my immune system and I need Prednisone. I intend to continue walking though. Maybe just not quite so far. I don’t know I’ll just have to see how it goes. I need my feet well.
Our last visit to Odlot resulted in several really nice pictures. The most unusual of which is the
pinoy spear fishing. I don’t know if he does this for sport, for his own consumption or sales his catch. I’ve never seen this and it appeared to be unusual to Jessie as well. He stayed under water for long periods of time. It reminded me of the free divers one sometimes sees on National Geographic in search of fish or other bounty from the sea.
I spent most of this day in the water. Usually I just go where Jessie goes but on this day I decided to do my own thing. I spent around two hours in the water. Sitting, walking and thinking.
I miss having an underwater camera. Good thing about two hours in the water is I can’t smoke. I couldn’t help but feel so insignificant. A tiny speck in the giant sea. I wondered what it would feel like to be ship wrecked in the vast Pacific ocean. I imagined being alone after my ship sank in the dark. We all really go through our lives alone. No one is inside our head with us. No one walks every step with us. While in the water, I wished I was good at poetry but my prior attempts at that were less than stellar to put it mildly.
There are some nice pictures of Jessie with her youngest in the small pool filled with sea water. The pool empties when the tide is out. It isn’t completely natural as there are some walls that pool the water a bit. There is no floor though, other than the sea bed.
Jessie and I did have some interesting and tender moments while in the sea. I notice her smile was best when she is with me. Something I really needed to see at the moment. I think you’ll see it in the pictures in the gallery below.
When I was sitting on another shallow sea wall, Jessie brought Jermain over with her. He pointed out to the sea and said he didn’t want to go there. I asked why and he said “It is big.” Later, when I was back at our table, he came running to me to tell me about a fish he saw. He told us all how it swam while demonstrating it with his fingers. His mother attempted to repeat the movement but he was adamant that was not correct. It didn’t move in circles like Jessie had indicated but rather up and down as he showed us the correct way. Later, he told us about a bug she saw. When he showed us how it moved it was clearly a crab. He said no, it does not have… then holding up his fingers indicating a pincher. I had seen one that day that appeared green and hair. I think it had covered itself with seaweed or moss but I was never sure. I really enjoy it when Jermain wants to tell me things. I don’t always understand but I listen closely anyway and act impressed all the same. Once Jessie reminded him to speak English and he simple said “English.” He is only five years old and is already learning English. Both of Jessie’s kids are usually at the top of their class. Not surprising as Jessie is an extremely smart person.
It was a nice relaxing and reflective day. The resort itself sits high on a cliff. To get the sea one must descend stairs. Easy going down to explore the pleasures of the Visayan Sea. But up is not so easy for me. The last two times I went to the beach there, I was left with my lungs feeling like they would explode once I reached the top. It wasn’t so bad this time. I didn’t go up the main stairs. There is another stairway at the edge of the resort. Choosing my own path, I went up that one instead at my own speed. About half way up, I took a long pause so I was not gasping for air by the time I reached the top. The entire day seemed very symbolic to me, especially my swim in the sea and the walk up the narrow steep stairway alone. It was a day of subtle but determined change.
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Rusty,
Having a family day is very important with the Philippine culture. We have done it several times here and it is a great bonding experience. I hope to take another trip to Harpers Ferry this weekend. It would be great to have an outing to the Camotes Sea though.
Jessie and I hope to take the boys to see the Ocean Park in Manila with the boys.
For two yeas, Jessie and I hardly went any place.
In the last six months though things have improved allowing us to get out more. We’ve taken the boys to Odlot three times in the last few weeks.
She and I may go tomorrow but this has been a money draining month so we may not take the family. We need to find a new spot too but Odlot will do.
WE’d also like to take them to Palawan but that was rather expensive and I couldn’t take myself there and do the same things today. Much less everyone.
Bohol is a place we need to visit too. Perhaps that wont be too far off. There is also an Islet off the coast of Bogo that I want to go to. I had hoped to go this month but things got a little crazy to say the least.
I can see a trip to that islet in the very near future! I can’t spell it, based on a Portuguese captains name. Captain Cello is all I can remember and that is not even close. lol
Rusty,
Ocean Park was great. Jho, Junie (my brother-in law) and I enjoyed the day there. I had fun with the Doctor Fish but Jho kept her feet in for a very little time.
I hope to see Camotes Islands on the next visit. Jho’s nanay was born in San Francisco and Jho has cousins still living there. I want to see the underground caves (even if there is a mumu living there) and enjoy a white sand beach. The Sabin Resort in Ormoc is nice. A room runs around 2,000 to 2,200 pesos for the night. My good friend Willie works in the restaurant at Sabin. Agalon Resort south of Ormoc is also very nice and has a great pool with a sliding board that would be fun for the boys.
I really miss the Philippines and my friends and family in Leyte.
Mummy huh? I’ve not seen a Filipino use that term. The word Jessie uses for places like this is “enchanted.” Caves are usually thought to be enchanted by a large number of Filipino. I would like to visit Camotes too. I’ve seen video of and cave with people swimming in it before. Camotes looks in enchanting to me too. I’m about an hour away from dock that people use to get to camotes. I think it is a four hour boat ride. That seems to long to me though. Maybe not, it seems like it took 2 hours via Super Cat to get to Ormoc from Cebu City. I think Camotes would be a bit closer but if only slow boats are available it would take much longer.
When we go to Manila with the family we will likely to take a ferry.
On my first visit to see Jho, we were outside late at night. We heard this sound going qqusssh qqusshhh qqussssh. Jho said Mumu. I was tired and didn’t ask questions until the next day when I learned about the “Mumu”. I would have been definitely up off the bench trying to find it. It would make a great Night Stalker show since it is a vampire like creature preying on pregnant women and children.
She MIGHT have been referring to an Aswang. Jessie explained it as a vampire to me. Not accurate and she knows that but she was trying to give me a reference point.
They will also eat the dead and dying.
Everything that goes bump in the night is an aswang
Going to beach resort is the most common way of Filipino people to celebrate any event like birthday, anniversary or any Philippine holiday.